That struck me as representing a uniquely different cultural quality than what you find in the United States. Schoolmates in the U.S. are generally not so deeply attached and influential as schoolmates in the Philippines. Yes, some people carry high school or college associations for a lifetime, but they are independent friendships, generally not linked to jobs.
The bonds of school
friendships in the Philippines seem to take on a much deeper meaning. I see the
pattern over and over again, with my wife, with Facebook friendships, with
Gloria Arroyo and the generals she promoted, with President Aquino. Schoolmates
are an integral part of one's decision-making and life's path in the
Philippines.
No wonder Facebook
fairly roars in the Philippines.
Is that bad or good?
Considering that the
broad commercial and political roads here are paved in favor, it is simply a
pragmatic thing. A necessary thing. Friends and family and classmates can open
doors. So the close personal associations here have a utility that American's
don't use as much because no ambitious boss in the U.S. would risk hiring a
friend over someone who is competent.
The utility of
family ties also binds OFW's to the homeland. Overseas workers send billions of
pesos back to parents and wives and kids. Love is three thousand pesos a month
and a box of Goldilocks treats delivered when visiting.
So I don't think one
ought to criticize the President of the Philippines for being consistent with
Philippine culture UNLESS one is also willing to criticize this entire national
network of friendship and favor over competence.
For myself, I
criticize both, arguing that nothing would energize the Philippines more than
an equal employment law that unleashed competence as the driving force
underpinning personal success.
But my views are
generally dismissed as culturally irrelevant because "that's the way we do
things here, Joe" and besides "you Americans do it, too, or you
wouldn't have two Clintons in high politics, or the Bush family or
the Kennedys".
It is different.
Friendships and families have utility in the Philippines. I can't tell if that utility is a substitution for affection or an add-on. In poorer communities, I think the utility is very pronounced as kids are sent out to the fields to help generate some income or food. Grandma also has utility, as a baby sitter while the single mother is out working. So utility works both up and down the family line.
Friendships and families have utility in the Philippines. I can't tell if that utility is a substitution for affection or an add-on. In poorer communities, I think the utility is very pronounced as kids are sent out to the fields to help generate some income or food. Grandma also has utility, as a baby sitter while the single mother is out working. So utility works both up and down the family line.
If you like the way
it is done in the Philippines, I have no problem with that.
I merely suggest
there are other ways, and sticking with the status quo is a choice.
Just be fair and don't criticize the President of the Philippines for acting consistent with
Philippine culture.
If you don't like
the status quo, try some serious introspection. Consider the way Philippine
society works as a form of infrastructure, and put in some different platforms,
some different dynamics. For EVERYONE.
If Philippine leaders can imagine a Philippines focused on competence, they can put in place the framework to assure it. Indeed, I think that is what President Aquino has done with the Executive Branch.
Does Chief Justice Sereno have the clout to do that with the courts? We will see.
The Legislature is a rats nest of favor over competence. That is the public's fault, the media's fault, and the social media's challenge.
If Philippine leaders can imagine a Philippines focused on competence, they can put in place the framework to assure it. Indeed, I think that is what President Aquino has done with the Executive Branch.
Does Chief Justice Sereno have the clout to do that with the courts? We will see.
The Legislature is a rats nest of favor over competence. That is the public's fault, the media's fault, and the social media's challenge.
But for sure, people can't change the social infrastructure if they insist on doing things the same way it was done 115 years ago.



