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National Level
The trick in
bringing two very different cultures together, for mutual interest, is one part
introspection and one part constructive acts.
The US could do more to build a good alliance with the Philippines by looking at the mirror and saying, "yeah, wow, we were pretty
insensitive to Philippine interests as we pursued what we thought was
right." And the action follow-up might be to clean up Subic and Clark, and
have President Obama visit the Philippines.
And the Philippines
can do this by looking in the mirror and saying, "yeah, wow, that is
pretty cool that American servicemen would die on our behalf, and we ought not
blame them for past American misdeeds." And the action follow-up might be
to grant an award to the American Secretary of Defense to express appreciation
for the training and partnership that exists between the two nations at the
military level, and have President Aquino visit the States to make a few
speeches extolling the high value Filipinos place in American friendship.
If both sides can
take those acts forthrightly and without reservation, there is hope for a
constructive alliance. Anything short of that assures and enduring, bickering animosity. It's
rather the distinction between a good marriage and a bad one, is it not? The
level of commitment and ability to forgive?
Personal Level
I have gone through
a passage during the past year. A passage is a phase of life that is very
distinct, like child-hood or teen-age years or marriage or military fighting or serious illness or dealing with the death of someone dear.
The passage, I
think, is one that is very rare for an outsider, judging from the views I read
from Americans or Europeans.
Our natural
inclination upon arrival in the Philippines, as we are driven by our cultural
bindings, is to see all the shortcomings of the Philippines, and Filipinos, in
the light of OUR BETTER WAY OF DOING THINGS.
What we fail to
recognize is the error of that highlighted statement. That the judgment is
wrong for being a judgment. Western standards do not apply. The Philippines is a different place, a different history, a different now. Philippine acts should be judged only through the looking glass of Philippine culture and history. Judgments of right or wrong by Western standards are irrelevant, other than what Filipinos choose to take from them.
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In publishing blogs on this site,
and in accepting open comments, I have on occasion written about the idea that
dissenting views are welcome. But I have only recently come to realize it is
not just the welcoming of dissent that is important. It is doubly important
to RESPECT the dissent and the dissenter. It is important to understand that each contributor comes to the blog with a very unique history. That's hard to grasp. But extraordinarily important.
And, frankly, respect is almost impossible to get to if a contributor is smack-down blunt or descends to name calling. But it is possible to arrive at respect for almost all views if the dissent is expressed in terms of issue rather than personality. If we can remind ourselves to accept the legitimacy of a different life's history, and a different life's view.
And, frankly, respect is almost impossible to get to if a contributor is smack-down blunt or descends to name calling. But it is possible to arrive at respect for almost all views if the dissent is expressed in terms of issue rather than personality. If we can remind ourselves to accept the legitimacy of a different life's history, and a different life's view.
In finding respect
for dissent and the dissenter, the mind opens wide. It is absolutely the best
condition for learning.
That is true for
cultural crossovers as well.
And, indeed, we
outsiders generally go about with our minds sealed shut by our cultural
biases. By our cultural misconceptions.
By the artifices, the fictions we make up in our mind.
By the artifices, the fictions we make up in our mind.
Passage
My personal passage
this past year has been the discovery that the Philippines is extraordinarily
rich. Rich with history, with passion, with heart, with hang-ups, with
achievements, with dysfunction, with smiles, with anger, with good intent, with
vengeance, with swagger, with tears, with labor, with sacrifice, with
capability, with insensitivity, with heart. With soul.
This is not a drive
through the suburbs of America, oh, no. Nor should it be. A bamboo hut built by
hand from scraps, where people live real time, is more authentic than a carbon
copy house built to fit someone else's idea of stylish and where people live
mainly to gain the approval of others.
This is not a drive
across the plains or through the mountain ranges of America. Nor should it be.
It is a bone-jolting drive over potholes somehow related to the Grand Canyon, or a hike
through snake infested jungles with more bugs per square meter than anywhere on
the planet.
Ahhh, but then I
step into my backyard at night and see a swarm of those bugs, fireflies, about 300 strong
hovering about one tree, and realize the bugs here are precious. And the snakes
are precious, even the cobra that killed my German Sheppard dog. For this place
is one-of-a-kind, Spanish-American-Native Asia, so ecologically rich that no
one can possible categorize all the species of creature inhabiting the place. Where
there really is no Filipino "race" because it is so plastered with
cross fertilization that everyone is here.
The Philippines may lead the world in that regard. Everyman is
here, and everywoman. If Adam and Eve populated the planet, and it divided into
disparate tribes that fought and bled and grew apart, then these peoples all
merged, and grew back together again in the Philippines. The Philippines is, in its own distinct
way, a return to Eden.
So this past year, I
stopped couching every comparison in terms of "what I can do for the
Philippines" and started looking around at "what the Philippines is
doing for me". I owe this new perspective mainly to manuelbuencamino at Pro-Pinoy and Edgar Lores, here at the Society.
"MB" would not let me get away with my cultural biases and Edgar
taught me the depth of the Filipino mind and the richness of the Filipino soul,
which may be anywhere on the planet but forever seeks its own kind of peace, not in Australia, but back home. Other contributors also chipped relentlessly away at my misconceptions.
With my need to
lecture set aside and my mind opened by newfound respect, I was amazed at what
I found. I found a President who is just like Robredo, only I fear that it will
be only upon his passing that Filipinos will recognize it. I found professionals
working hard to build this nation independently, without need of excuse or
handout from America or self-condemnation, such as that you read at Get Real.
And as America has
her dysfunctional congressmen, the extremists of either direction elected by
special interests, so the Philippines has her Enrile and Sotto and dynastic
barons, elected by special interests. But the great leveler, the great
revealer, has arrived in the Philippines. It has cut mass media, that star-
gazed batch of journalists of weak professional principle, owned by land
barons, out of the picture. Social media
have modernized the Philippines and helped President Aquino remove corrupt politicians
from the cigar-smoked back rooms and get them into the light of responsible
oversight.
Enrile is naked now. It is not a pretty sight. It is almost sad. And Corona is gone. And Arroyo is cooling her heels in a clink of some better class than most.
It is somewhat strange, given the power of social media to call out injustice, that President Aquino would back an internet libel provision that would surely suppress whistle-blowing expression.
It is somewhat strange, given the power of social media to call out injustice, that President Aquino would back an internet libel provision that would surely suppress whistle-blowing expression.
As I drive the rough
and twisty roads of the Philippines, the roads that are always too narrow and
too cluttered with stray dogs and clattering vehicles held together by a fine
coat of determined rust, I find myself at extraordinary peace. I could watch those
green mountains all day, and sometimes I do. I could smile across those blue or
gray seas all day, and sometimes I do. I can hike the city streets, always
aware of eaves and signs prepared to whack my head as well as holes prepared to
break my leg, always aware that people are watching with some amusement and curiosity as a tall white dude ambles along, and I think to myself that this is really a very,
very good place to be.
It is genuine
in the Philippines.
One can grow rich, of character, in the
Philippines.
Nobody could express my feelings better...
ReplyDeleteI would give a fortune for the one who can explain me this mysterious force here that can drive us back to Eden.
The sun is shining so brightly and my coffee tastes so well!
Ah, see, you nailed it in one line. I have to chuckle because I horde the Siete Baracos "Black Gold" coffee, a blend of Batangas Barako and Arabica beans, when it comes available in the Tacloban Robinson's supermarket. It is a budget buster but ohhh so fine.
DeleteAnother thing thast makes the Philippines unique is the ready smile of the people, even when they are in the midst of floods and other disasters, they always find time to smile to somebody or make a joke about something.
ReplyDeleteAh, so right! I'm sorry I missed capturing that, because it is the amusement that is everywhere that takes down the edginess of dealing with traffic or poverty or, as you point out, disasters. I've not been to another place with that kind of open easiness.
DeleteIt reminds me a scene in the movie called Amigo with Joel Torre. The Spanish friar who was previously imprisoned by the revolutionaries tells to an American lieutenant that the Filipinos are very clever people, always smiling but never forget what lies behind their smile.
ReplyDeleteAhahaha, well, Attila, I always appreciate your balancing presence here. Yes, one does walk with wariness as well as amusement.
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